Let’s Make Sex More Fun

Do you know what’s great about living in the 21st century?

We’re way less hung up on sex. And that’s awesome.

Many of us have realized that sex – all kinds of sex – is a normal and healthy part of our lives. And most of us do it. Repeatedly.

This is true whether you are monogamous, promiscuous, or a soloist.

Married, single, dating, straight, gay, trans, young, mature, skinny, curvy … as long as it’s legal and consensual, it’s all good.

And that’s why Sassy Sensations exists. We’re here to help you enjoy sex. Good, healthy, guilt-free sex.

We want you to explore and experiment.

We want you to enjoy yourself and your chosen partners.

We want you to have good sexual health and wellness. 

And we want you to orgasm. Hard. Because there’s nothing like it.

To this end, we’ve got a wide selection of toys, lubes, lingerie, fetish items, and much more. Go ahead – check out the products, read the descriptions, and start enjoying your sex life even more.

But if you’re new to this world of expanding and enhancing your sex life, you’re in the right place as well. In fact, these next few paragraphs are written largely with you in mind.

What follows will give you a solid introduction – and perhaps a place to start – that will make you feel more comfortable with yourself, your sexual health, and your curiosity.

Let’s explore a few things that will help you think about sex differently.

Masturbation: Something We Can All Agree On

We’ll start with masturbation, because it’s where almost all of us started anyway.

According to research on the subject, masturbation is nearly universal amongst humans. In other words, it’s something we all do, whether we want to admit it or not. If you’re like most people, you’ve pleasured yourself this past month, if not this past week, day, or even hour. And that’s great!

There, it’s out in the open and out of the way. That wasn’t so bad, was it?

Admitting something like this – and not feeling guilty or ashamed about it – is a huge step for many people.

It’s also something common in relationships, whether the partners are open about it or not. In fact, masturbation can be a beneficial part of a healthy sex life for couples. It can help offset unequal sex drives (which is more common than you think), and it can fill gaps when partners cannot be together, or it can be “just because”.

The more accepting we are to masturbation, the happier we are. The keys are communication and comfort. With yourself and with others. Accept yourself and what you like. Talk to your partner about masturbation, and don’t feel less (or angry) because they do it. After all, you do it too. Show each other what you like. That’ll be a fun evening.

Want help? We go to great lengths here to provide a wide selection of masturbation items for women and men.

Once the “look, we all do it” is laid bare and accepted, doors start opening. And that’s great*.

*(Unless the kids are home of course! Close the physical door then, but keep the one in your mind always open.)

Your Sexual Health Matters

To us, healthy sex = better health overall. People who are having good healthy sex have a glow about them.

But what is “healthy sex”?

We feel it’s twofold: physical and mental.

First there’s the physical aspect of it.  And a lot of work has been done in that area. From Viagra and other ED drugs being mainstream to increased attention to women’s sexual pleasure, we can read about it, talk about, and shop for it.

These days, a visit to the OB/GYN may involve discussing vaginal dryness or “it hurts when I do this – can we fix that?” And more and more men are scheduling a yearly urologist appointment to make sure things are going well.  Add to that couples unashamedly visiting sex therapists to get their sex life on track. All of this is awesome. 

But honestly, we feel the mental aspect is the first step. The acceptance of yourself, your body, and your pleasure. The realization that you deserve to have good sex, and through communicating those needs will help to make that happen.

Remember, whomever you are talking to – your doctor, a therapist, or even a team member at one our boutiques – also has sex.  Were all in this sex journey together*

*Mostly figuratively, but depending on your preference, sometimes literally!

Once you become more accepting of your sex life, you start to want more. And you’ll start looking for advice and products. Or you’ll make that doctor’s appointment and become unafraid to say “my sex life isn’t what it should be. Help me.”

And we want to be a part of that. Whether we become your favorite place to buy sexual toys and aids, or our blogs and podcasts help encourage you to get more out of your sex life, we’re happy to help any way we can.

When all the parts are cared for, sexual health and wellness can last our entire lifetimes. And honestly, as long as it’s legal, we encourage you to explore whatever it is that turns you on. Being comfortable with your desires is the first step. There’s no kink shaming here, and good communication – with both yourself and your partner – is key.

So Where to Start for Beginners? How About Lube?

In making sex more fun, we like to start with something simple but life-changing: LUBE.

Lubes and Oils are a great place for beginners to start exploring getting more out of sex. There are a few reasons for this.

The first is, it’s great for nearly everyone in nearly every situation. Lube helps partners have better sex, and lube makes masturbation more enjoyable.

Lube is also fairly a harmless psychologically way to explore. It might take a little courage to buy your first dildo, vibrator, or other sex toy… but lube? Goodness, they sell it at Walmart (but we have a better selection!)

The point is, lube has become mainstream.   But it can be the start to everything. People of all ages enjoy lubes, and it’s often the first thing a couple will use to enhance their sex life.

We really encourage you to go check out our lubes. Choose one that sounds good to you, and buy it. Just do it. 

When your purchase is delivered a few days later, dive right in with your partner, or try it yourself first if you wish. We promise you you’ll start seeing – and feeling – sex differently.

Listen, in the end, you came to this website for a reason: to get more out of sex, and make it more fun. So let’s just do it!

And remember – you’re innocent until proven naughty!

See you soon!

The Staff of Sassy Sensations